On Papa's 44th

Only three hours have passed after my father's 44th birthday officially ended. I stop, look around, observe and try to formulate answers to the littlest questions that pop from my head this time. The efforts, the tears, the years that have passed. It is the time I ask myself, "What do I really want?".

It was in 2007 that my view in life changed big time. I was never this idealistic. I was never this dreamy about things way beyond my grasp. It is only now that I see the triviality of my existence, and everyone's as well. It is only now that I am growing.

You see, society has kept us blind from the beauty of introspection and the thoughts that dreams are made to be followed not just to be stared upon. We do not get what we want because of luck but because of all the sweat-drenched t-shirts we washed. It is only not that success is the fruit of our labors but also the other way around.

Life is a sequence of problems ordered in an approximately increasing difficulty. We encounter a question, we try to solve that question, we find answers, we move on then encounter another problem. If we look at it this way, then life is all about puppets climbing a mountain with a non-existent peak with a constant supply of boulders ramming on their, the puppet's, faces. The puppets know they're not free but have no grasp of what's on the other side of the string. All they know is that it moves in weird intervals leaving them fate to gravity's mercy in between.

We cannot serve two masters but masters can have two slaves. It's either I stick with pursuing my research career or stop and go lead the money-making train. Shall I try to be a great scientist or a superb manager? In the end, it all boils down to what we need. I need money to feed myself and to keep my family kicking and alive. But I also need to do what I want to do as it keeps me from falling from this self-made pedestal of ego and pride. Funny, I practically type-casted a want to a need.

Proves my point. Nothing is absolute. Reality itself is relative. Right now, I shall go expand my horizon. No time for senseless lolligagging.